A lot has happened since I stopped writing on this blog. I self-published three books – two in “The Six of Salem” series, “The Magic Awakens” and “Salem Moon” – and a poetry book called “Ode to Eight Years” chronicling my relationship with my boyfriend, Eric.
I’ve learned in the long years since my last post that I have major control issues & not where they should be. I want to control what happens in the world & my life. I hate change & I hate unpredictability. This is the hard lesson I’ve learned during the pandemic. I know the only things I can for sure control are my exercise & my eating habits. I was using a stationary bike for a few months and I toned up a lot. But when the scale didn’t move, I gave up – again. I was gaining muscle, I lost twelve inches in my thighs, but I gave up bc my belly & waist weren’t shrinking.
I also have been battling fibromyalgia & my mental illnesses. My doctor recently upped some of my meds because my paranoia was really bad, bordering on delusions. I’m much more stable now, but it was horrible for a while. I still get depressed but the paranoia is way way down. My mom dealt with the brunt of my mental illnesses for the most part, and I knew it was getting bad when I had suspicions about people I trusted and loved. The fibromyalgia is ten times worse in the cold weather, so ibuprofen has become my bff. The liquicaps have been a savior for me bc they’re fast-acting and sometimes every muscle in my body hurts horribly.
Other than that, I’m focusing on celebrating Thanksgiving & Christmas. We decorate for the holidays on Black Friday instead of shopping – we put up the tree & wreaths & kitsch (me and my mom) and our house, by that night, looks like a version of the North Pole. So I will be incredibly grateful that, every day after that, I can look at the glow of the tree with the beauty of our mismatched ornaments collected over the years & feel a bit of hope and happiness when I’m depressed.
In these tough times of the pandemic, I hope you all are staying safe and healthy to the best that you can. Follow precautions and take care of yourselves. I will try to post more.
Hugs & Love,
Kristin ❤ 🙂